A Dad's Point of View - Hollywood should be ashamed

No, I don’t blame Hollywood or the Dark Knight for the Colorado shootings. But, I do blame Hollywood for the deterioration of its product, the resulting desensitization of our kids, and the overall lack of concern for what it produces and the impact it has on our souls.

 

The recent tragedy in Aurora, Colorado in which a young man, dressed in full protective gear, wrought havoc, death, and mayhem on an innocent movie crowd is no accident. He was a lover of The Joker, the “star” of the second Dark Knight movie, portrayed by the late Heath Ledger. He was a lover of violent role-playing video games. He chose the new Batman movie crowd as his target; he didn’t choose the latest Pixar movie.

I worked in the entertainment business for a quarter century. My forte was the now largely defunct “Movie of the Week.” We suffered our own run of poor taste when so many of the television movies were ripped-from-the-headlines true murder films. The first writing I ever did was my effort to put a halt to that shameful period of television with “Murders of the Week.” It was later reprinted in the Daily Variety and I like to think it led to the considerable lessening of production of those movies.

The Hollywood my parents grew up with and that I grew up with was quite different than today’s movie world. My parents lived through World War II, when not only did Hollywood contribute wonderful movies glorifying the sacrifices of our men and women in the armed forces, but also made films about sacrifices on the home front. These films helped bolster a scared nation. After the war, Hollywood continued making such moves, with “The Best Years of Our Lives” deservedly earning a Best Picture Oscar in 1946.

I grew up with adventure films that starred such late greats as Charles Bronson, Steve McQueen, Lee Marvin, Gregory Peck and so many others. “The Great Escape” was truly awesome to me though the more likely word we used then was either “cool” or “groovy.” “The Guns of Navarone, “The Dirty Dozen,” and so many other films of that era informed my idea of heroes and villains.

Many years later, Quentin Tarantino came along and wrote and/or directed movies with unmitigated violence and any lack of honor, at least the honor I learned in my life. I’ve only seen one film of his, so I can only judge from afar, and the one I did see -“Inglorious Bastards” - had some value, in my opinion. Oliver Stone came along and tried to change history with his movies, starting with his anti-war depictions in “Platoon,” continuing with his totally fictional “JFK,” and others. Ironically, he made a truly good movie about 9/11 – “World Trade Center” in 2006 - but much damage to the soul of America had already been done by his work.

When the original “Psycho” came out in 1960, it was hailed as the scariest movie ever. And it was pretty darn scary. The infamous shower scene, however, was in black and white and did not show a single explicit shot of violence. It was brilliantly directed by the late Alfred Hitchcock and masterfully scored by Bernard Herrman to a chilling effect.

Today’s horror films try to out-do each other with extreme gore. The “Saw” series is just one example. The excesses portrayed in these films induce nightmares, desensitize feelings, and create a culture in which violence seems okay to portray and even to laugh at. Sorry, I don’t think it’s funny.

Does Hollywood care? Some say Hollywood only cares about money. But, if that were true why do they still make so many R-rated movies when their box office performance is invariably less than the moderately rated films. This is a contradiction in reality that Hollywood chooses to ignore to pacify the stars, filmmakers, and studio execs that like the R-rated films and think that they are expanding “their art.” Read Michael Medved’s “Hollywood Vs. America” for ample evidence of the fiscal failure of R-rated movies!

Now, let’s look at the video games. I’m old enough to remember Atari’s first video game, Pong. It was a simple competition of “hitting” a virtual ball back and forth. Nobody had to die, and it was a lot of fun. Today’s video games often try to out-do one another with gore, blood, and violence. The very successful “Grand Theft Auto” video game series took this even further by demonizing the police and giving the player more points when they killed police and innocents. Hooray for Hollywood. Hooray for the Gaming Industry.

Where do we parents come into this discussion? How many parents give in to their children’s pleas to go to the latest PG-13 or R-rated movie before their children are anywhere close to mature enough to see them? What about the games and Internet access allowed to many kids?

Do you think the Colorado shooter, was watching the Discovery Channel, renting Pixar movies, and playing Mario Brother’s video games? I’m sure he avoided all those excessively violent horror movies, so many of which had sequel after sequel. The same goes for the Columbine killers. Their favorite music was The Four Seasons, wasn’t it? No, I think it was Patti Page.

I haven’t even touched on the lack of responsibility within the music industry, which completely shares Hollywood, and the Gaming industry’s lack of soul.

To paint these industries as the bad guys with one brush stroke is too simple. This is a complicated societal problem that has grown over time during my generation – the boomers. The solution isn’t simple either. But, maybe if these industries thought about their 5-year-old boys and girls a little more, they might choose to make a Batman movie with slightly less gore, skip the horror movies altogether, and maybe strive to create stories that enrich, educate, and inspire.

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Bruce Sallan, author of “A Dad’s Point-of-View: We ARE Half the Equation” and radio host of “The Bruce Sallan Show – A Dad’s Point-of-View” gave up a long-term showbiz career to become a stay-at-home-dad. He has dedicated his new career to becoming THE Dad advocate. He carries out his mission with not only his book and radio show, but also his column “A Dad’s Point-of-View”, syndicated in over 100 newspapers and websites worldwide, his “I’m NOT That Dad” vlogs, the “Because I Said So” comic strip, and his dedication to his community on Facebook and Twitter. Join Bruce and his community each Thursday for #DadChat, from 6pm -7pm PST, the Tweet Chat that Bruce hosts.

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Comments(4)

walkerno5 says...
3:19pm Wed 25 Jul 12

I guarantee to you that he watched all the Toy Story films, and probably Wall-E.

I guarantee to you that he played Super Mario Bros.

He also drank coffee, went to a school, and regularly used cutlery.

None of these things have the slightest bit to do with what happened.

But he lived in a country where you can legally buy fully automatic weapons very easily, for "personal protection". Where the individual is prized above the group. Where success is black and white and failure has very little safety net and the poor are begrudged even rudimentary medical care.

You list war movies as if there's something inherently noble about exploding someone's guts because they're on the other side.

For shame Bruce, for shame.

walkerno5 says...
3:23pm Wed 25 Jul 12

Oh, plus, your generation are the parents of this kid. Some good work there, your entire generation (since you like to blame the ills of the world on large swathes of people rather than nutjobs with a grudge).

What is it that made your generation such a bad set of parents? Is it a lack of engagement with children? Is it too much? Was it all that pot and LSD back in the day? Or the Free love?

Or is it that you had the free love and the right ideas and squandered it all for a **** house in the burbs and sucking up to the man?

Rosemary Lobley says...
5:13pm Wed 25 Jul 12

Wow, this may be the third stupidest thing Bruce has ever written (still just beaten out by "essential gender differences, little lady" and my personal favourite, "I fell asleep at the wheel doing 80mph and the only lesson I took from it was to appreciate life, WTF").

Bruce is usually very quick to blame all society's problems on the insidious influence of the entertainment industry, which just suggests to me that he watches too much telly (incidentally, if James Holmes was ~influenced~ by the Joker so much, you'd think he'd get the hair colour right). Certainly it makes more sense to blame the parents - I wouldn't stretch the rage to the entire "boomer" generation, though, let's just agree that Bruce Sallan is a terrible father. A lousy writer, a sorry excuse for a man, and an appallingly terrible father.

"A dad's point of view" - get to funk, Bruce. You aren't worthy of the name.

Jon D says...
5:16pm Fri 27 Jul 12

Bruce Sallan is seriously weird. I hope he doesn't own a gun.

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